GET OVER IT

Today i found out just how much My kid's mom is Mean. Not just mean like aw she doesn't like me, No MEAN like EVIL MEAN. I wanted to pick up my kid from his daycare on Friday and bring him home since it is my weekend. Instead she wanted me to take a tour of the place with her...Now Im not up to anything, im not here to throw off they're schedule or anything, I just want to pick my son up see where he spends 8 hours a day. She wasn't having it, going as far as saying that she likes to spend time with him before she bring him over to my place for my weekend. Now I would totally understand that if she didn't see him that much...He lives with her for crying out loud, I mean if she's not seeing my kid enough then something is definitely wrong over at that household.I only see him every other week. I thought this was "Joint Custody" it's not. I was never told my son had been sent to a daycare, I was never told where the daycare was. Hell it took a year to find out where he lived. Now Before I would just give up, and think that being a father I have no rights. Well come to find out I have plenty of rights. All I wanted was ONE Friday to go check out my son's daycare and pick him up. But no she has to pick him up. I have a feeling that Liam's soon to be step dad is being told that he's the "real" father and she doesn't want me to come around and ruin things. Today i found out that I have more rights than I thought, and I will use them. I will no longer sit back and just forget about things because I thought that there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I did her a favor by switching weekends once, I didn't hesitate one second to do so. Now when I want a favor from her, there is no having it. I'm here for my son, she is still pissed or mad about the past. GET OVER IT. There is a child to think of.